Becca Wilhite Blog

March 28, 2009

Good thoughts

Filed under: Uncategorized — becca @ 9:38 pm

I have spent the last 28 hours (minus a little sleep) getting filled up with things to think about (and eventually blog about). Here are a few of them:

Does every writer write with an agenda, and if so what is mine?
How do I write a virtuous book that is also fun (not cream cheese)?
When writing about redemption, how much of the darkness do I need to show in order for the “brought back into the light” part to be effective?
Were “Gremlins” and “Goonies” actually important cinematic pieces of my childhood?
Why are there, in every group discussion, attention whores; and how can I avoid the tragedy of becoming one myself?
If something is being described as “moral” for it’s lack of overt sexual encounters, do I need a new word for my kind of moral? (the kind that suggests and explores consequences, expects a little personal growth, and requires a character to do something for the good of someone else?)
Why do people ask me my opinion about things?
Is it such a “consumery” idea to think that art should entertain? Discuss.
What works of art do I engage with, what kinds do I not, and what makes that distinction?
What are the merits of rice vs. orzo and vice versa?

March 26, 2009


Filed under: Uncategorized — becca @ 9:43 pm

What about this?

I never quite know what to think when my favorite kiddo books go to the Big Screen…
But I’ll suspend judgment till October 16th.

March 24, 2009


Filed under: Uncategorized — becca @ 2:01 pm

I didn’t write my words yet this morning. I did get in 80% of my situps, so there’s something to feel good about. But the rest of the day is about doing stuff for other people. I hope I’ll get to the writing part at some point.

Hey – if I keep going here, does that count? If I make it to 500 or 1000 words on my silly blog post, can I count it?
(*No, no madam, no you may not. This is not writing. This is thought vomit. It counts for thinking, and for typing, and maybe even for connecting. But this is not your writing.)
Thanks, Mom.
(*You’re welcome. Go write something in the seventeen minutes you’ve got left to yourself.)
Yes, Ma’am.

March 23, 2009

Monday random

Filed under: Uncategorized — becca @ 1:44 pm

I haven’t posted for a few days because I’ve been outside loving the spring. It’s on hold right now, though, so I can sit here and watch the snow out the window.

I’m working on a story that’s turning out very differently than I’d thought it would. First drafts are pretty fascinating, aren’t they? Here I thought I was telling a story about A, but when I write it seems to be more about B, and when I read it over, it may actually be all about C.
And then there’s the part where I wonder if it’s any good at all.
But the notes look great. So there.
I’m waiting for a reply from the publisher on Book The Second – the reply that was supposed to come mid-February. Hopefully this week I can hear something. Something like, “This is brilliant! We cannot live without it! Here is a fat advance check! If we only publish one thing in this year of tight budgets, it simply must be your book!” I mean, I’d settle for that. You know.
In children news, the kids all slept on the family room floor in the basement together last night. I love days with no school (totally not related to the snow – we don’t have snow days around here. It’s the end of the term, so teachers are at work and kids are home – yay!) So we can all just wake up when the desire strikes, and do our thing all day long. My favorite.

March 19, 2009


Filed under: Uncategorized — becca @ 6:01 pm

Its coming. I can feel it.

The frost is still shining on everything, at least until the sun hits it, but then – yeah! warm is coming. Sun is coming. Even a little sunburn is coming.
We’re scootering and biking and walking and raking and standing without shivering and loving it!
Hooray for you, Spring.

March 16, 2009


Filed under: Uncategorized — becca @ 12:06 pm

Yeah, I know. Nobody cares. And although I know it’s true, I still need to write them down. And it’s best to do that somewhere pretty public, where people may know if I succeed and will surely know if I fail.

Here they are:
100 sit-ups every day (I go 40/40/20, because I certainly can’t do 100 at once.)
500 words each day, before the kids get up (I could try for 1000, but I need to start out reasonable. Besides, the kids are all up by 6.30, and, come on.)
1 new book to read each week (new = new to me – not just rereading my favorites.)
Everything else is frosting. (Okay, that’s not true. Some other things are already habits, and not included in this list.)
See, the thing is (obviously) I’m not big on expectations for myself. And also, I have to be the Mom, which means, among other things, that most of my day is not my own. But when I get these things done I will feel Oh-So-Accomplished.
And that is good.

March 13, 2009

Things I’m usually good at, just not today (or yesterday)

Filed under: Uncategorized — becca @ 11:21 am

* Sleeping. Okay, that’s not quite what I mean, because I’m getting really good at falling asleep before 9:30. But the staying asleep until a decent hour is not happening. This morning? 3:03. So I’ve written my 1000 words (or very nearly 1000 words) and read my email and finished my first 3 glasses of water and am ready to do 30 minutes of yoga. But by 2:00 this afternoon, I’m betting I’ll be feeling it.

* Grocery bargaining. I am a compulsive grocery list maker. And I plan my week so I don’t have to go more than once. And I generally just shop the perimeter of the store (produce, deli, dairy, meat, ice-cream freezer). But yesterday, with the entire family in tow, I spent $100 on next week’s meals (not too bad) and also junk. White bread. And bagels. And hamburger buns. 2 bags of Dirty Potato Chips. I am not usually a potato chip girl, but possibly because I’d never had these before. Oh. My. Yummy. (Sour cream and onion. And salt and vinegar. Yes.) I also came home with a bag of Buffalo wing / bleu cheese Doritos, which were free (long story about how cute my local grocery market is). Yes, there was fruit, and I feel almost entirely redeemed about what’s hiding in the pantry by how pretty my huge fruit basket looks. And we bought veg, but not enough to make me feel good about the white bread overload. Oh, and did I mention chocolate milk? Who am I?
* Taking care of my kids. I am attending a writer’s conference these 2 days. It’s one of my lazy kinds, where I just sit and listen to writerly advice and funny stories, write down all sorts of ideas about what books I could read, and flash my book at prospective writers to give them a little hope. But I am totally not caring for my kids. Yesterday I had them all out the door by 7.20, including the one with the cough and runny nose. Guilt, maybe? Yea, I guess so. I came home at 6 to a table full of finished homework and dinner coming out of the oven. So it turns out they don’t actually need me. But they’re sure cute.

March 11, 2009


Filed under: Uncategorized — becca @ 12:19 am

I’m starting to take just a little responsibility for my kids’ music lessons. Kate’s been taking violin lessons for over four years (three of them with wrong teachers) and I’m just beginning to sit down with her to count out her measures. And to do note reading theory with Ellie and Matthew. Some part of me (large) knows my limitations (as in I do not play an instrument and never really learned this stuff), and some part (not quite as large, but still looming) recognizes that I pay someone monthly to teach them this stuff.

But it’s like school. If I were the mom who expected the teaching to all be done by the teacher, I’d have the kids who learned only what curriculum was in the actual classroom. But since I’m the mom who expects (demands) earlier, later, deeper, and generally beter learning, I have very bright (yeah, gifted – so what?) kids who like to learn.
The point? If I want them to be gifted at their instruments, I should push for more, better, and extended music learning too. (But do I? Really, only if they care.)
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